Amapiano star Babalwa M has finally spoken out following intense backlash over her decision not to perform at the Itsoseng Delicious event on the Day of Goodwill, addressing rumours and online criticism that quickly spiralled after her withdrawal from the show.
The award-winning singer took to her social media platforms to clarify what really happened behind the scenes, saying the narrative circulating online was both misleading and unfair. According to Babalwa M, her decision had nothing to do with unreasonable performance riders, alcohol demands or diva behaviour, as some had claimed.
“My decision not to proceed with the performance was not based on performance riders or alcohol demands, as suggested,” she explained. “I have performed at numerous venues with incorrect riders or no riders at all, and I have always chosen professionalism over inconvenience when the engagement is handled respectfully.”
The controversy erupted after organisers of the Itsoseng Delicious event alleged that the artist refused to perform due to unmet demands, a claim that sparked heated debate on social media. Fans were divided, with some accusing Babalwa M of being difficult, while others urged people to wait for her side of the story.
In her statement, the singer revealed that the situation escalated after what she described as unprofessional and aggressive conduct from one of the promoters on site. She alleged that she was verbally abused, sworn at and even called “crazy,” creating an environment she felt was unsafe and deeply disrespectful.
“Under those circumstances it became impossible to continue in a safe, respectful and professional environment,” she said, adding that no artist should be expected to perform while being insulted or intimidated.
Babalwa M further addressed misconceptions around payment, clarifying that she had already agreed to perform at a discounted fee for the event. She also corrected claims regarding alcohol demands, stating that the additional bottle mentioned by promoters was not supplied by them, but rather by a friend of her DJ.
The singer also highlighted what she described as a lack of basic hospitality, noting that no water was provided for her or her team. While this may seem minor to some, she stressed that such details speak volumes about how artists are treated and valued, especially during long travel days and high-pressure performances.
“As an artist and a professional, I believe that mutual respect is non-negotiable,” Babalwa M said. “Just as one would not continue a transaction in a store where they are treated poorly, I could not proceed with a performance after being disrespected.”
She explained that leaving the venue was not an impulsive or emotional decision, but a necessary step to protect her mental well-being and that of her team. In an effort to act in good faith, Babalwa M revealed that she issued a full refund to the organisers before departing, making it clear that her actions were not motivated by entitlement or financial gain.
“What happened on the 26th was an isolated incident,” she emphasised, adding that she has a long-standing record of professionalism and positive working relationships within the industry.
The incident has sparked broader conversations within Mzansi’s entertainment industry about the treatment of artists, particularly female performers, and the need for clear communication and mutual respect between artists and event organisers. Many industry insiders have since come out in support of Babalwa M, praising her for speaking up and setting boundaries.
In closing, the singer expressed sincere regret to fans who attended the event expecting to see her perform, acknowledging their disappointment and support.
“I would like to sincerely apologise to my supporters who came out to see me,” she said. “This situation highlights the importance of respect, professionalism and honouring agreements in the entertainment industry.”
As the dust begins to settle, Babalwa M’s statement has shifted public conversation, reminding many that behind every performance is a human being deserving of dignity. While the controversy may have momentarily overshadowed the music, the artist remains focused on her career, her well-being and fostering healthier working relationships going forward.
