Norma Mngoma drops a bombshell & compares her ex Malusi Gigaba to Diddy! Norma Mngoma, the ex-wife of former South African Minister Malusi Gigaba, has lifted the lid on their controversial relationship, likening her ex-husband’s behaviour to that of disgraced US rapper Diddy.
In the shocking tell-all, which aired on Showmax’s Untied, the IT businesswoman detailed Gigaba’s alleged obsession with pornography, extramarital affairs, degrading sexual practices, and manipulation tactics that ultimately led to their bitter split.
The couple, once dubbed the “Gigabytes,” were married from 2014 until their divorce in 2020. Their lavish wedding reportedly cost R6 million. Over the years, they shared two children and numerous public appearances — all while their private lives were marred by scandal.
Norma Mngoma drops a bombshell
Caught on Camera: The Viral Video
One of the most scandalous revelations revolved around a now-infamous video of Gigaba that went viral in 2020. The footage showed him engaging in a lewd act while uttering the phrase, “Imagine this in your mouth.” Gigaba had allegedly claimed the video was meant for Norma — a lie, according to her.
“I saw it the day it was leaked,” Mngoma told Untied host Relebogile Mabotja. “We were blackmailed for six months. They demanded a million rand. He acted like it was our video, but we never made one.”
She continued: “He knew it was just him. I used to warn him that one day he’d be exposed.”
Diddy Comparisons and Baby Oil
Perhaps one of the most jaw-dropping moments of the interview was Mngoma comparing Gigaba to Diddy, who faces multiple allegations of sexual misconduct in the US.
“Whenever you leave, you pack oils. You’re like Puff Daddy now,” she said, implying her ex carried baby oil for illicit rendezvous during official business trips. “That means you are prepared for those things.”
Allegations of Porn and Mistresses
According to Mngoma, Gigaba maintained a collection of nude images of other women on his iPad and often watched pornography during his work as a cabinet minister.
“He was so used to it,” she claimed. “He’d be working while porn was playing in the background.”
She also revealed that Gigaba allegedly degraded her in the bedroom, using derogatory names during intimate moments.
“We can be naughty, but don’t degrade me. He loves that,” she said, visibly disturbed.
The Breaking Point: Caught in the Act
While she had long suspected infidelity — having received messages from women claiming to have slept with her husband — the final straw came when she returned home unexpectedly and found Gigaba in bed with another woman.
“I found the lady in our bed. She tried to cover herself. I took off his glasses and tried to beat him up,” Mngoma confessed.
Life After Divorce: A New Identity
Following their explosive breakup in late 2020, Mngoma initiated divorce proceedings and quickly began rebuilding her life. She dropped the Gigaba surname, returned to her maiden name, and rebranded herself as a business leader, keynote speaker, and philanthropist.
She established the Norma Mngoma Foundation, aimed at empowering women and children. She also appeared at multiple high-profile events celebrating female leadership and business excellence.
From being seen as a “trophy wife” to carving out her own lane, Mngoma embraced her new identity with pride.
“I am free, and I’m independent,” she told reporters. “I don’t need anyone’s name to stand out.”
Testimony at the Zondo Commission
Mngoma didn’t stop at public interviews. She went on to testify at the Zondo Commission, revealing damning details about Gigaba’s alleged dealings with the controversial Gupta family — the businessmen at the centre of South Africa’s state capture inquiry.
Her testimony was seen as a pivotal moment in the probe and highlighted how closely tied Gigaba had allegedly been to the Guptas during his time as Minister of Public Enterprises and later as Minister of Finance.
Conclusion: From Silence to Strength
Norma Mngoma’s tell-all marked a dramatic chapter in South Africa’s ongoing saga of political scandal and personal redemption. While Gigaba has denied many of the claims, Mngoma’s voice now joins a growing number of women reclaiming their narratives and using their pain to uplift others.
“I am no longer defined by someone else’s lies,” she said. “This is my story now.”
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